But, if she can't adapt, eventually the stress of hiding her from your colleagues will be too much and ruin the relationship. Teasing big goth ass. I'm currently dating a 19 Goth girl boobS old girl 3 months now who attends nearby college in NYC. Goth girl boobS is nothing wrong with dating a goth girl if that is what you are into. Why are you so worried what other people are going to think?